Friday, 15 November 2019

ROSE or THORN?
OR
ROSE WITH THORN?
CHOICE IS YOURS..





“Good”
This word is instilled in our heads from very childhood.
See good.
Do good.
Feel good.
Behave good. 

Everything should be good all the time, that’s our basic nature of thinking. 
But did anyone ever tell us that it doesn’t always shine bright and that it might rain heavily sometimes..?
There will be times when the things go wrong,.
There will be a bad hair day,
There will be food being spilled on clothes,
Driving the wrong way,
Ringing the wrong doorbell, and so on.


Being too engorged to seek the goodness out of everything, we forget, there are two sides to the coin. The moment we see bad in a thing, our first reflex is to be disheartened and then decide to abandon it altogether. Yes, we have all done this, a couple hundred times. Well, I’ll not label this as a wrong behavior because that’s how we we are programmed to think. 


With everything that we come across, we get to see either sides of the coin.
Riding bicycle is fun, but getting your knee bruised accompanies.
A hot cup of coffee is fun, but the chance of burning your tongue to ecstasy ensues.
Winter is fun only till you don’t wither yourself to cold.
Summer is fun with sunbathing and ice creams only till you get knocked down with sun stroke.

The point is everything will be GOOD at some point of time but it can also be BAD at some other time..
You can’t keep the good without holding the bad. Being scared of the bad we don’t back off from trying different things.

Same goes with the people in your life. Not all days will be full of happiness and laughing till your stomach hurts.
There will be days when people will make mistakes, there will be breach of your expectations,  tears in eyes and resentment ensues. We begin to detach and decide to give up on them.
how fair is it?
We’ve kicked our mothers a hundred times in her womb,
We all might have wetted our fathers pants by peeing on his pants,
We’ll might have smashed our sibling’s heads.
We all have done wrong, yes, over and over again, but we were never abandoned being labelled “wrong”.


Everyone and everything goes wrong at times,
doesn’t mean we give up on it..
May it be a dream or a person,.
Patience and acceptance is the key to happy life..

To only seek the good in everything itself is “WRONG”.
When you decide to pluck a rose from the garden, you don’t plan on plucking the thorns, but they’re inevitable.
That doesn’t mean you don’t pluck roses.

So.,
ROSE or THORN? or ROSE WITH THORN? 

CHOICE IS YOURS..